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Explanations + Extra Practice Activities!
WHO vs WHOM β Easy English Lesson
π In modern English, WHOM is not used much anymore. Most people prefer WHO in everyday speech. β
WHOM is still used in formal writing, for example:
- βοΈ Formal letters / Business writing
- π Academic papers / Research
- βοΈ Legal documents
- π Literature / Books
In this lesson, youβll learn:
- When to use WHO (subject)
- When to use WHOM (object)
- Easy tricks for questions, prepositions, and relative clauses
- Many examples so you can practice
1οΈβ£ WHO = Subject
- Who is the person doing the action.
Examples:
π¨βπ¦° Who is calling? β He is calling.
π©βπ¦° Who wrote this book? β He wrote it.
π§ Who is coming to the party? β He is coming.
β Trick: Answer the question β He = WHO
2οΈβ£ WHOM = Object
- Whom is the person receiving the action.
Examples:
π¨βπ¦° Whom did you call? β I called him.
π©βπ¦° Whom are you waiting for? β Waiting for him.
π§ To whom should I give this letter? β Give it to him.
β Trick: Answer the question β Him = WHOM
3οΈβ£ WHO vs WHOM in Questions
| Question | Correct | Trick |
|---|---|---|
| π¨βπ¦° ___ is coming to the meeting? | Who | He β WHO |
| π©βπ¦° ___ did you meet yesterday? | Whom | Him β WHOM |
| π§ ___ called you last night? | Who | He β WHO |
| βοΈ To ___ should I send the email? | Whom | Him β WHOM |
π‘ Spoken English: Most people say who instead of whom in casual speech:
- Who are you talking to? β
4οΈβ£ WHO vs WHOM after Prepositions
- Prepositions = to, for, with, byβ¦
- Use WHOM in formal English.
Formal examples:
- βοΈ To whom did you speak?
- π For whom is this gift?
- π§³ With whom are you going?
- π By whom was this book written?
Casual English: Move the preposition to the end and use WHO:
- Who did you speak to? β
- Who is this gift for? β
- Who are you going with? β
5οΈβ£ WHO vs WHOM in Relative Clauses
Relative clause = extra information about a noun
Advanced trick:
Cannot remove β WHO (subject)
Can remove β WHOM (object, often removed in casual English)
Examples:
WHO = Subject (cannot remove)
π¨βπ¦° The man who called me is my teacher β Cannot remove βwhoβ
π©βπ¦° The girl who is singing is my friend β Cannot remove βwhoβ
WHOM = Object (can remove)
π¨βπ¦° The man whom I met is my teacher β Can remove “whom” β Can say βThe man I met is my teacherβ
π©βπ¦° The girl whom we invited is coming β Can remove “whom” β Can say βThe girl we invited is comingβ
β Casual English tip: If the relative pronoun “who/whom” can be removed, native speakers usually remove it:
- The man whom I met is my teacher. β β The man I met is my teacher. β
6οΈβ£ Quick Summary Table
| Function | Use | Example | Spoken English |
|---|---|---|---|
| Subject | Who | π¨βπ¦° Who is calling? | Same |
| Object | Whom | π©βπ¦° Whom did you call? | Often WHO |
| After prepositions | Whom | βοΈ To whom did you speak? | Who did you speak to? |
| Relative clause (subject) | Who | π©βπ¦° The girl who is singing | Same |
| Relative clause (object) | Whom (can remove) | π§ The girl whom we invited β The girl we invited | Often WHO |
7οΈβ£ Easy Trick for Students
- Questions & objects: Answer the question β He = WHO, Him = WHOM
- Relative clauses:
- Cannot remove β WHO (subject)
- Can remove β WHOM (object, often dropped in casual English)
Examples:
- The person ___ I met was kind β I met him β whom
- The person ___ called me was kind β He called me β who
Extra Practice Activities
WHO vs WHOM Quiz β Beginner Level (10 Questions)
Instructions: Choose WHO or WHOM.
- ___ is calling?
- ___ wrote this book?
- To ___ should I give this letter?
- ___ are coming to the party?
- ___ did you meet yesterday?
- ___ is your best friend?
- For ___ is this gift?
- ___ called you last night?
- ___ is singing in the classroom?
- ___ do you want to invite?
Answer Key:
- Who
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Who
- Whom
WHO vs WHOM Quiz β Intermediate Level (10 Questions)
Instructions: Fill in the blank with WHO or WHOM.
- The man ___ is standing over there is my teacher.
- The woman ___ I met yesterday is very kind.
- ___ do you usually talk to at school?
- To ___ should I send this email?
- The boy ___ plays football is my brother.
- ___ did you call last night?
- The girl ___ we invited is coming to the party.
- ___ is responsible for this project?
- With ___ are you going to the cinema?
- The person ___ helped me was very friendly.
Answer Key:
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Who
WHO vs WHOM Quiz β Advanced Level (10 Questions)
Instructions: Choose WHO or WHOM. Pay attention to formal vs casual English and relative clauses.
- The professor ___ we spoke with yesterday is an expert in law.
- To ___ it may concern: please find the report attached.
- The writer ___ wrote this novel won a prize.
- The candidate ___ we interviewed will start next week.
- ___ do you think will win the competition?
- The lawyer ___ handled my case was excellent.
- With ___ are you discussing the contract?
- The person ___ called me last night was my old friend.
- For ___ is this document intended?
- The scientist ___ discovered this formula is famous worldwide.
Answer Key:
- Whom
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Who
WHO vs WHOM Quiz β Formal / Professional Level (10 Questions)
Instructions: Fill in the blank with WHO or WHOM. Focus on formal English.
- To ___ it may concern: please find the enclosed report. βοΈ
- The researcher ___ conducted the experiment published her findings in the journal. π
- The lawyer ___ represented the client successfully is highly experienced. βοΈ
- The candidate ___ the committee interviewed will begin next month.
- To ___ should we address this official letter? βοΈ
- The professor ___ the students consulted about their thesis provided detailed feedback. π
- The judge ___ presided over the case retired last year. βοΈ
- The scientist ___ the team invited to the conference gave an important presentation. π
- With ___ should I coordinate the legal documents? βοΈ
- The author ___ the editor contacted revised the manuscript promptly. βοΈ
Answer Key:
- Whom
- Who
- Who
- Whom
- Whom
- Who
- Who
- Who
- Whom
- Whom
WHO vs WHOM Quiz β Formal / Professional Level 2 (10 Questions)
Instructions: Fill in the blank with WHO or WHOM. Focus on formal English usage.
- The committee ___ reviewed the proposal provided valuable feedback. π
- To ___ it may concern: we request your urgent attention regarding this matter. βοΈ
- The attorney ___ represented the client argued the case brilliantly. βοΈ
- The editor ___ we contacted requested further revisions to the manuscript. βοΈ
- The researcher ___ the team cited in the article received an award. π
- The judge ___ presided over the trial delivered a fair verdict. βοΈ
- With ___ should we discuss the contractual terms? βοΈ
- The author ___ submitted the paper last week will present it at the conference. π
- For ___ should this official notification be sent? βοΈ
- The advisor ___ guided the students through their thesis was highly appreciated. π
Answer Key:
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Who
- Whom
- Who
