Do We Say “You and I” or “You and Me”?
Choosing between “you and I” or “you and me” depends on how you use it in a sentence. Here’s how to know which one to use:
- You and I
- Use “you and I” when you are the subject of the sentence, meaning you are doing the action.
- Example: You and I are going to the park.
(Both “you” and “I” are doing the action of going.)
- You and Me
- Use “you and me” when you are the object of the sentence, meaning the action is happening to you.
- Example: The teacher gave you and me homework.
(Both “you” and “me” receive the homework.)
Tip: Try saying the sentence with just “I” or “me” to check.
- Example: “The teacher gave me homework” (correct).
- Example: “The teacher gave I homework” (incorrect).
What About “I and You” or “Me and You”?
- In English, it’s more polite to say “you” first, so we don’t usually say “I and you” or “me and you.”
- Always say “you and I” or “you and me”.
Summary:
- Use “you and I” for the subject (You and I are friends).
- Use “you and me” for the object (He called you and me).
Extra Practice!
Here’s a 45-question ESL quiz to help students practice choosing between “You and I”, “You and me”, “Me and you”, and “I and you”. It is divided into three sections: Beginner, Intermediate, and Advanced, with 15 questions each. Answers are provided at the end of each level’s section.
Beginner Level (A1-A2)
- ___ are going to the park later. (You and ___)
- ___ will help clean the kitchen. (___ and you)
- The teacher gave homework to ___ after class. (You and ___)
- ___ are going to the movies tonight. (___ and you)
- Can ___ have a snack now? (You and ___)
- ___ can play soccer after school. (You and ___)
- Would ___ like some ice cream? (___ and you)
- ___ are meeting our friends at the café. (You and ___)
- ___ went to the zoo yesterday. (___ and you)
- The bus driver told ___ to sit down. (You and ___)
- ___ can go to the party tomorrow. (You and ___)
- ___ had a great time at the concert. (___ and you)
- The gift is for ___, not anyone else. (You and ___)
- ___ need to study for the test tomorrow. (You and ___)
- ___ were the ones who cleaned the room. (___ and you)
Beginner Level Answers:
- You and I / 2. You and I / 3. You and me 4. You and I / 5. You and I / 6. You and I / 7. You and I / 8. You and I / 9. You and I / 10. You and me / 11. You and I / 12. You and I / 13. You and me / 14. You and I / 15. You and I
Intermediate Level (B1-B2)
- Can Sam help ___ with the project? (You and ___)
- The coach gave ___ extra practice after school. (You and ___)
- ___ went shopping for groceries yesterday. (___ and you)
- ___ will be working on the group assignment together. (You and ___)
- Is the letter for ___ or someone else? (You and ___)
- ___ were invited to the wedding next week. (___ and you)
- It’s important that ___ practice speaking more. (You and ___)
- Please ask ___ to wait outside. (You and ___)
- ___ should take responsibility for the mistake. (You and ___)
- ___ are going to organize the event tomorrow. (___ and you)
- I think the boss expects ___ to finish the task. (You and ___)
- The instructions were given to ___ by the teacher. (You and ___)
- ___ need to sign the contract before leaving. (You and ___)
- The company asked ___ to attend the meeting. (You and ___)
- ___ were the last ones to leave the office. (___ and you)
Intermediate Level Answers:
- You and me / 2. You and me / 3. You and I / 4. You and I / 5. You and me / 6. You and I / 7. You and I / 8. You and me / 9. You and I / 10. You and I / 11. You and me / 12. You and me / 13. You and I / 14. You and me / 15. You and I
Advanced Level (C1-C2)
- ___ should have submitted the report earlier. (You and ___)
- The client asked ___ to review the documents. (You and ___)
- ___ have been working on this project for months. (___ and you)
- Do you think the presentation will go well for ___? (You and ___)
- ___ need to prepare for the meeting tomorrow. (You and ___)
- There was a misunderstanding between ___ and the supervisor. (You and ___)
- The responsibility for the mistake lies with ___, don’t you think? (You and ___)
- I think ___ should present the idea together. (You and ___)
- Can you meet the client with ___ this afternoon? (You and ___)
- The promotion is an opportunity for ___ to shine. (You and ___)
- ___ were praised for their hard work on the project. (You and ___)
- The manager invited ___ to join the conference. (You and ___)
- It’s essential that ___ are on the same page. (___ and you)
- The email was sent to ___ with important details. (You and ___)
- ___ will travel to the conference next week. (You and ___)
Advanced Level Answers:
- You and I / 2. You and me / 3. You and I / 4. You and me / 5. You and I / 6. You and the supervisor / 7. You and me / 8. You and I / 9. You and me / 10. You and me / 11. You and I / 12. You and me / 13. You and I / 14. You and me / 15. You and I